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I'm not married. Am I invited?

Yes, Yes, Yes! Beth & Jeff's teachings are amazing for dating and engaged couples as well as those who are single now but want to prepare for the future!


Will my spouse like it?

Men and women, even the most hesitant, typically walk away feeling heard, known, and seen like never before! So, while we can't say for sure, that's a bet we'd be willing to take!

What is the Enneagram?

The Enneagram (Ennea=9, Gram=Diagram) is simply a map (GPS) for self-discovery and personal growth based on 9 basic personality types.

The Enneagram accurately and clearly describes why you think, feel and behave in particular ways based upon your core fears and desires.

The power of the Enneagram is in its ability to harness and transform self-limiting behaviors into life-enhancing personal empowerment.

The gift of the Enneagram is that, through self-discovery, one can create and sustain meaningful and lasting relationships with others, God and themselves.

We are a couple in crisis. Can you help?

What Beth & Jeff offer, including the insights from scripture and studying the Enneagram, cannot substitute for professional therapy, marriage counseling, or psychological in-patient treatment. We don't intend for this event to be a marriage "ICU."

If anything triggers a serious reaction, please don't wait to get help. If you are in a violent or abusive situation, seek help immediately. Make sure you are healthy and safe. For a marriage to heal and grow, it must have two healthy partners.

What does a ticket include?

  • Becoming You (1 ticket):
    • All access-pass to Becoming Us - Live!
    • Pre-conference assessment focused on you
    • 50% off Discovering You Course
    • An early-release copy of Beth & Jeff's brand new book, Becoming Us
    • Workbook and Pen
  • Becoming Us (2 tickets):
    • All access-pass to Becoming Us - Live!
    • Pre-conference assessment focused on your relationship
    • 50% off Discovering You Course
    • An early-release copy of Beth & Jeff's brand new book, Becoming Us
    • Two Workbooks and Pens
  • VIP - Pretty Please (1 Ticket):
    • All the benefits of the Becoming You ticket along with…
      • Reserved Seating
      • Meal with Beth & Jeff
      • Exclusive access to get your individual questions answered during a Q&A session with Beth & Jeff

Where is the event located and when does it begin and end?

  • Chicago:
    • Saturday, June 22  |  9:00 AM - 12:00 PM
      • Willow Creek North Shore
      • 2200 Shermer Rd, Glenview, IL 60026
  • Austin:
    • Thursday, June 27  |  6:30 - 9:30 PM
      • For the City Center
      • 313 E. Anderson Lane Building 3, Suite 100, Austin, TX 78752
  • Atlanta:
    • Thursday, July 18  |  7:00 - 10:00 PM
      • Westside Presbyterian
      • 1255 Collier Rd NW, Atlanta, GA 30318
    • Saturday, July 20th  |  6:00 - 9:00 PM
      • Campus Church Atlanta
      • 1525 Indian Trail Lilburn Road, Norcross, GA 30093
  • Charlotte:
    • Thursday, July 25  |  7:00 - 10:00 PM
      • Mosaic Church North Campus
      • 10624 Metromont Parkway Suite 302, Charlotte, NC 28269
    • Friday, July 26  |  6:30 - 9:30 PM
      • Southbrook Church
      • 5607 Monroe-Weddington Road, Weddington, North Carolina 28104
    • Saturday, July 27  |  6:00 - 9:00 PM
      • Pritchard Memorial
      • 1117 South Boulevard, Charlotte, North Carolina 28203
  • Nashville:
    • Friday, August 23rd  |  7:00 - 9:00 PM
      • West End Community Church
      • 235 White Bridge Pike, Nashville, TN 37209

Are there hotel recommendations near the event location?

  • Atlanta
    • Westside Presbyterian:
      • Hampton Inn Atlanta-Georgia Tech-Downtown: Website
      • Hyatt Place Buckhead/Atlanta: Website
    • Campus Church:
      • Hilton Garden Inn Atlanta NE/Gwinnett Sugarloaf: Website
      • Holiday Inn Gwinnett Center: Website
      • Courtyard by Marriott Atlanta NE/ Duluth Sugarloaf: Website
      • Hampton Inn ATL - Lawrenceville I-85 Sugarloaf: Website
  • Austin:
    • For the City Center:
      • DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Austin: Website
  • Charlotte:
    • Mosaic Church North Campus:
      • Hilton Garden Inn Charlotte North: Website
      • Residence Inn Courtyard: Website
    • Southbrook Church:
      • Hilton Garden Inn Providence Road Exit: Website
    • Pritchard Memorial:
  • Chicago:
    • Willow Creek Community Church North Shore:
      • Staybridge Suites Chicago/Glenview: Website
  • Nashville:
    • West End Community Church:
      • Best Western Plus Belle Meade Inn & Suites: Website

What do I wear?

Casual, comfortable attire. We recommend a light jacket as it can get chilly in the venues.

What do I need to bring?

Only yourself as we provide pen and workbook. We will also provide light snacks and coffee/water so please eat a full meal before or after the event.

If you are VIP, a meal will be provided for you.

Where do I park?

  • Chicago
    • Willow Creek: open parking
  • Austin
    • For the City Center: look for general parking signs
  • Atlanta
    • Westside Presbyterian: park in church lot (overflow in local business parking lot)
    • Campus Church: use Georgia Bell Road entrance to park at church
  • Charlotte
    • Mosaic North: open parking
    • Southbrook: open parking
    • Pritchard Memorial: park in the lots off of S Caldwell St. & Lexington Ave.  and/or the lot right behind the church on S Caldwell
  • Nashville
    • West End Community Church: open parking

Will there be options available for those with dietary needs?

We will have light snacks and water/coffee available. Feel free to bring your own snacks if needed.

What airport should I fly into?

  • Chicago: ORD (O’Hare Int’l Airport) or MDW (Midway Int’l Airport)
  • Austin: AUS (Austin-Bergstrom International Airport)
  • Atlanta: ATL (Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport)
  • Charlotte: CLT (Charlotte Douglas International Airport)
  • Nashville: BNA (Nashville International Airport)

Are there shuttles to the event from the airport?

No, but we recommend using Uber or Lyft.

Is childcare provided?

No childcare will be provided for this event (with the exception of For the City Center for the first 40 children)

Will the event accommodate attendees with disabilities?

Yes, all facilities are on ground level and accessible for those with disabilities.

If needing sign language interpretation, please email our team: [email protected]

What if I can’t attend? Can I get a refund?

We do not have a refund policy for this event, but you can transfer your ticket to a friend.

Are there Group Rates

Absolutely!  If you have a group of 10 or more, please email: [email protected]

Do I have to print my pass and bring it with me to the event?

You will need to either print your ticket and bring it to the event or show it from your phone.

Can I volunteer?

Volunteering requires being available that day as well as lifting up to 25lbs and being on your feet for the majority of the day. If you are interested in volunteering, please click here to fill out this form:  Thank you for your willingness to volunteer and we will inform you if we still have a need for volunteers.

What if I want to become a sponsor of this event?

Please email us at [email protected] and inform us as to how you would like to sponsor the event and a team member will get in touch with you. Thank you.

Can I purchase a video recording of the event?

At this time, we are not planning on recording the event. You can email us at [email protected] with your interest and we will inform you of any updates to this when we have them.

Do I need to know anything about the Enneagram to come?

Nope! You are welcome to come as you are. This event will be helpful for beginners and all level of experience with the Enneagram. If you don’t know your Enneagram type, click here for a great place to start.

Other Questions

I have another question that's not listed on here! We’d love to hear from you, just shoot us an email and we’ll get back to you! [email protected]

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