A date night for couples who want to
 each other better.


Ever Wish Your Spouse 
Came with an Instruction Manual?

“He doesn’t listen to me…”
“I don’t understand her…”
"We know we could do more with our marriage."

If you've ever found yourself saying things like these, you're invited to spend an evening with Enneagram experts, Beth and Jeff McCord, so you can begin to understand why you both naturally respond the way you do.

With an astonishing kind of clarity through the lens of the Enneagram and the Gospel, you'll leave with practical tools to help you avoid marital landmines and make the most of a marriage God wants for you.

We Want You to Know...God Loves You Too Much
Not to Have More in Store for Your Marriage

Meet Beth & Jeff McCord. After growing through 25+ years of marital ups and downs, there's nothing this duo loves more than coming alongside couples - armed with the Enneagram and the Gospel - to offer a better way to live and grow, together. Join Beth & Jeff for a date night that can change everything.

On Your Date Night, Beth & Jeff Will Use Three Powerful Tools to Help You Build a Better Marriage

The Enneagram

The Enneagram is a personality tool meant to awaken self-awareness and to provide hope as we look at ourselves and each other.

The Gospel

The Enneagram is exponentially more powerful when paired with the active work God is doing in us than when it's in our hands alone.

The Couple (You!)

Begin to see the hidden forces that may be calling the shots in your marriage and leave with practical tools to overcome them.

Using These Tools, You'll Discover Practical Ways to Better Understand Yourself, Your Spouse, and Your Relationship

Your date night includes three hours with Beth & Jeff as they give an honest - and often humorous - sneak peek into their own marital pitfalls to help you improve your own marriage.
They break down the evening into four parts...

An Overview of the Enneagram

Beth will kick off the evening with an overview of all nine Enneagram types so you can confirm yours!

A Look at How You've Been Communicating

Jeff will dive deep into the relational "dances" each type settles into in conflict and communication. 

A Path to Understanding Each Other Better

Beth and Jeff will show how the Gospel can change old patterns and help you navigate a fresh way forward.

Practical Tools for the Marriage You Want

Leave with powerful tools to help you regain control and achieve the kind of marriage you want.


And Here's What a Few Friends Say about Becoming Us by Beth and Jeff McCord

“The McCords have written Becoming Us as an insightful resource for those who want to understand themselves, their spouse, and their marriage through the lens of faith and the tool of the Enneagram.”

Ian Morgan Cron
Author of The Road Back to You


“We so appreciate Beth and Jeff’s helpful and honest approach to marriage in Becoming Us. They show us how understanding each other’s core fear, desire, weakness, and longings in light of the gospel can help us communicate with, and love one another, well.”

Matt and Lauren Chandler
Matt: Author, pastor, president of the Acts 29 Network;
Lauren: Author, speaker, and singer/songwriter


We have seen firsthand, both in our marriage and in the marriages of countless others, how the Enneagram can bring couples closer, foster empathy, and provide a newfound appreciation for each other’s differences. Thank you, Beth and Jeff, for writing Becoming Us. Finally, we have a practical and godly tool that can be used to enrich, and even save, many marriages. We can’t wait to share it with others."

Gail & Michael Hyatt
Michael Hyatt & Co.

“I’m a huge fan of the Enneagram—it’s been an extremely useful tool in my life, marriage, and friendships. What I appreciate about the McCord’s approach is that it explores the Enneagram through the lens of the gospel and helps appropriate what the Enneagram is in light of how God made us.”

Dave Barnes
Recording Artist



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