The Enneagram Relationship Map
Build Trust, Intimacy, and Lasting Love
🔓Unlock the Secret to Deeper, Healthier Love:
Understand Yourself and Your Partner Like Never Before.
Gain astonishing clarity into how you and your partner love, what you each need, and how you connect—then transform your relationship into a secure, fulfilling bond built on true understanding.
◦ Ready to understand both yourself and your partner with stunning clarity?
◦ The Enneagram is a powerful tool for relationship growth, revealing how each of you gives and receives love—and why you sometimes miss each other’s signals.
◦ It’s not just about what you each say or do—it’s about the core fears, desires, needs, and longings driving those actions.
◦ Discover your personalized roadmap for creating deeper intimacy, resolving conflict with compassion, and supporting each other in ways that truly land.
Discover Your Relationship Blueprint
❌ The Problem:
What's Holding Your Relationship Back?
Feeling Disconnected? Wondering Why You Keep Having the Same Arguments
- Many couples long for deeper connection but find themselves stuck in repeating patterns—misunderstandings, unmet needs, and emotional distance that seem to circle back again and again.
- Traditional relationship advice often skims the surface, focusing on quick fixes without uncovering the deeper "why" behind your reactions and communication styles.
- You may be carrying unspoken fears, hidden expectations, or old emotional wounds that shape how you show up with your partner—sometimes without even realizing it.
- Without a deeper understanding of yourself and your partner, small conflicts can escalate, affection can fade, and the trust you both long for can feel just out of reach.
🧭 The Solution:
The Enneagram as Your Relationship GPS
Your Relationship GPS: The Enneagram for Deeper Love and Understanding
- The Enneagram, from the Greek words ennea (nine) and gram (drawing), is a powerful framework that goes far beyond personality traits—it uncovers the deeper motivations, fears, and longings that shape how you and your partner connect.
- It shines a light on the hidden patterns that drive both your closeness and your conflicts, helping you see not just what is happening between you, but why.
- When you understand your type and your partner’s type, you gain a shared language for empathy, trust, and growth—transforming misunderstandings into opportunities for deeper connection.
- At Your Enneagram Coach, we equip you with insights and tools to navigate your differences, celebrate your strengths, and build a relationship rooted in compassion, safety, and lasting love.
📍The Guide:
Expertise You Can Trust
Guided by Experts Who Understand Love and Connection
- Founded by Beth McCord, a certified Enneagram Coach and bestselling author, Your Enneagram Coach is a trusted global platform helping couples build stronger, healthier relationships.
- We provide a safe and supportive space for you and your partner to explore the Enneagram together, equipping you with the tools to move past recurring conflicts and create deeper emotional intimacy.
- Our mission is to help you gain extraordinary clarity about yourself and your partner, guiding you toward lasting love, trust, and joy in your relationship.
📋 The Plan:
Your 3 Steps to Relationship Growth
Your 3-Step Journey to Relationship Growth
We've designed a clear, flexible process to help you and your partner understand each other more deeply, navigate conflict with compassion, and grow a relationship that thrives.
The 3 steps are:
- Step 1: Discover
- Step 2: Explore
- Step 3: Become
Step 1: Discover Each Person's Enneagram Type
Take our free Enneagram test and get guidance on how to discover your main Enneagram type.
Take The Free Assessment
Step 2: Explore Your Unique Relationship Dynamics
There are 45 different couple type combinations. Download Your Unique Relationship Dynamics Blueprint to better understand how you and your partner connect, communicate, and navigate challenges.
Your Unique Relationship Dynamics BlueprintStep 3: Become the Healthiest Version of “Us”
Ready to grow together? Grab your personalized Becoming Us course—crafted for your exact type pairing. Learn why you struggle, how to love each other well, and thrive as the unique couple you are. Don’t wait—gain real clarity and guidance for your marriage today.
Becoming Us Course
Ready to accurately find your Type?
Let's do this!
🔎 Start Here –Discover Your Enneagram Type!
Take Our Free Assessment!
👎 Potential Failure: The Cost of Remaining Unaware
Don't Let Misunderstandings Erode Your Connection
- Without truly understanding each other’s inner world and motivations, you risk falling into the same conflicts again and again—feeling frustrated, unheard, or emotionally distant.
- Unspoken needs can turn into resentment, and assumptions can replace genuine curiosity.
- Over time, this lack of awareness can chip away at trust, intimacy, and the joy you once shared.
🌟Hear From Those Whose Relationships Have Been Transformed🌟
🌟“The McCords, using the Enneagram as a tool, have provided a roadmap I wish Les and I had in our early years of marriage, but it’s equally relevant to us now as we’re still growing and learning, even after 57 years! No matter how long you’ve been married, Becoming Us will give you insight to love each other well.”
Patsy Clairmont, Author of "You Are More Than You Know"
🌟“The McCords, using the Enneagram as a tool, have provided a roadmap I wish Les and I had in our early years of marriage, but it’s equally relevant to us now as we’re still growing and learning, even after 57 years! No matter how long you’ve been married, Becoming Us will give you insight to love each other well.”
Patsy Clairmont, Author of "You Are More Than You Know"
🌟“Becoming Us has been a game-changer in helping us understand and appreciate one another, and figure out how to communicate in a more constructive way. I love the real stories that Beth and Jeff share and their honesty about the rocky parts of marriage. Becoming Us gives tangible tips for better supporting, communicating, and resolving disagreements.
🌟“I FINALLY realize that my way of seeing the world is NOT the way everyone else sees the world. And it is DEFINITELY not the same way my spouse sees the world. We are beginning to better understand each other’s points of view. Our lives will be forever changed.”
Your Enneagram Coach was founded by Enneagram Expert, Teacher, and Best-selling Author Beth McCord (Type 9). It is currently one of the leading global platforms for the Enneagram, and our work has been featured in numerous leading publications and university studies.