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Free Download: Tips for Healthy Communication with Your Spouse’s Type

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Hi, Friends. It’s Your Enneagram Coach Beth here. For those of us in relationships, we know that healthy communication is critical to a thriving and lasting partnership. Though sometimes that's easier said than done, I created this resource to help move you and your significant other in the right direction.  

This free download outlines what healthy communication with each Enneagram Type looks like, giving tips for understanding, listening, and responding to our significant others. When our partners feel seen, heard, and loved, it makes them come alive and helps them transform into the best version of themselves.  

Marriage Communication for Each Enneagram Type

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As always, my heart is to point you and your spouse back to the truth of the Gospel. When we’re aligned with Christ, we know that our partners struggle here on earth and can communicate in hurtful ways, but we can extend grace, mercy, and forgiveness since our hearts are resting in the freeing work of Christ on our behalf. We communicate with empathy, patience, and integrity, knowing we are all fully loved, valued and accepted in Christ, despite our insecurities and shortcomings. 

I’m praying these Enneagram insights draw you closer to your partner, deepening your walk with the Lord and helping you grow into the couple you were designed to be. By taking the time to learn the intricacies of your spouse’s personality, and listen and respond to them in a way that points them to Christ, you’re ministering to their heart and making an impact for the Kingdom of God!  

As you take an honest look at your communication dynamics with your partner and do the hard work of change, remember that healthy growth isn’t always easy, but your relationship is worth it! 

Want to dig deeper into using a Gospel-centered Enneagram to transform your marriage communication? 

Pre-order our Marriage Book: Jeff and I are excited, humbled, and a little nervous to be launching our very first book, Becoming Us: Using the Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel-Centered Marriage. Not only does in include our marriage story, but it’s written to serve as an instruction manual for your spouse. It would mean the world to us if you would be part of our mission to impact marriages by spreading the word as it releases on October 1. You can preorder your copy here. 

Take a Marriage Course Just For Your Types: We’re developing 45 different marriage coaching courses so each couple type combination will have its own specific curriculum. (Whoa!) The courses will launch this summer, so stay tuned. 


Are you new to the Enneagram? If so, welcome! A great first step in your journey is to discover your Type with our new, free test. We also offer 3-step online courses to help you dig deeper into the Enneagram for lasting spiritual growth and renewal.  Our team also offers private coaching for individuals, families, and teams. 

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