Hi, Friends. It’s Your Enneagram Coach Beth here. For those of us in relationships, we know that healthy communication is critical to a thriving and lasting partnership. Though sometimes that's easier said than done, I created this resource to help move you and your significant other in the right direction.
This free download outlines what healthy communication with each Enneagram Type looks like, giving tips for understanding, listening, and responding to our significant others. When our partners feel seen, heard, and loved, it makes them come alive and helps them transform into the best version of themselves.
As always, my heart is to point you and your spouse back to the truth of the Gospel. When we’re aligned with Christ, we know that our partners struggle here on earth and can communicate in hurtful ways, but we can extend grace, mercy, and forgiveness since our hearts are resting in the freeing work of Christ on our behalf. We communicate...
How God’s Word Specifically Answers the Longings of our Hearts
Hi, Friends. It’s Your Enneagram Coach Beth, here to talk to you about one of my favorite topics, God’s care for you. Our Heavenly Father intricately created you and knows every nuance of your personality. No matter your Type, and the fears, weaknesses, and struggles that come along with it, you’re His cherished child, and He is absolutely crazy about you.
This is why I teach the Enneagram through the lens of the Gospel. Wherever you land on the Enneagram (If you don’t know your Type, go take my free test!), you have a specific message your heart is longing to hear, and only Christ can satisfy it. We can look to other people and things, but lasting freedom and abundant life can only be found when we depend solely on Him!
If you’re a believer in Jesus, all the hope you need can be found in the Bible. You can run to it for peace and assurance, especially in those moments when...
We live in a fallen world, and we’re constantly bombarded and worn down by the sins and troubles that come this side of Heaven.Each Type has different strategies for finding love, worth and validation, and the Enneagram quickly exposes them, and calls us to the work of self-awareness and soul restoration.
If we’re honest, we all have times when we feel spiritually depleted. But before we look to anything or anyone other than Christ to satisfy us, we have to remember what it says in John 4:14: “But whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”
Get our free download below to learn about the spiritual renewal steps each Type can take to keep themselves on the path of health, wholeness and freedom in Christ.
May these insights refresh your soul and deepen your walk with the Lord, the one who intricately designed...
Each of us has a Core Longing, or the central message each of our hearts is longing to hear. It's another one of the Core Motivations propelling each of our thoughts, feelings and actions, but we forsake our Creator when we try to fulfill this unending craving in our own strength (Jeremiah 2:13), and we'll always be left wanting more.
The good news of the Gospel is that we never walk alone! Christ's life, death and resurrection completely satisfy every Core Longing, allowing our hearts to find true rest. His love is like a Spring of Living Water that never runs dry.
Enjoy this Free Download of each Type's Core Longing, and reflect on how your heart's cry is motivating your thoughts, feelings and behaviors each day. What or who are you turning to in order to fulfill this yearning, and how is it keeping you from healthy growth and relationships?
May you use this knowledge not as a burden, but as a reminder to put your full dependence on Christ. He alone can fill your cup to...
Each Enneagram Type has a Core Weakness, the issue their personality is always struggling with in everyday situations and interactions. It's another one of the Core Motivations propelling each of our thoughts, feelings and actions, and identifying it can help us use the Enneagram as a rumble strip to keep us on the path of health and freedom.
We all have a weakness we're always wrestling with, an Achilles' heel that remains with us for all our days on Earth. This is like the “thorn in my flesh” Paul described in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. But as Paul explained, Christ's grace is sufficient for us, and his power is made perfect in weakness. Because of his sacrifice, we can surrender ourselves to Him and allow Him to transform our hearts to be more like his. The more we depend on Christ and rest in our true identity in Him, the weaker the grip our Core Weakness has on us.
Enjoy this Free Download outlining each Type's Core Weakness, and may you use this knowledge not to feel...
Arming Ourselves For the Internal Battle We’re All Fighting
Hello my fellow Enneagram fans! It’s Your Enneagram Coach Beth, back with you again to dig a little deeper into the internal worlds of each Type. Remember, the better we understand the Enneagram and our personalities, the better we can use the insights as a GPS to keep ourselves on a healthy path in every area of our lives. It’s especially beneficial to gain a deep understanding of our Hidden Struggle, the persistent internal battle we’re always fighting, but try to keep concealed from the people around us.
Before we dive into this topic, know that this knowledge is not meant to make us cast shame or blame on ourselves or others, but rather as another reason to put our full dependence on Christ, the One who knit us together in our mother’s wombs and knows the number of hairs on our head. We belong to Him, despite every thought, emotion and battle we are fighting.
The better we understand the Enneagram and our Type's Core Motivations, the better we can use it as an internal GPS to keep ourselves on a healthy path. Enjoy this FREE DOWNLOAD of each Type's Primary Focus of Attention, the specific and automatic current that is pulling at each us in every interaction and environment.
Remember that this knowledge is not meant to bring shame about your Type's internal patterns, but rather to help you steer yourself away from unhealthy thoughts, feelings and behaviors. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in Christ's image, and He took care of everything through His life, death and resurrection.
Wherever your Primary Focus of Attention is today, take a deep breath and remember that you are God's beloved child, and no matter your internal struggles and tendencies, you can fix your eyes on Him and take rest in this truth.
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As someone desiring to become their best and most authentic self, how would you rate that for 2018?
As you look ahead to 2019, in the context of personal growth, it is useful to evaluate the previous year. It's helpful to look at its successes, failures, life lessons and themes before attempting to create a different outcome in the year ahead.
Unless you bring clarity to where you’ve been and where you are, you will struggle to get to where you want to go in the future.
I created the New Year: New Journey assessment to help you identify which of the life zones you are currently living in so that you can determine the areas of life you want to transform in 2019.
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